Here’s just one of the challenges that I haved faced being Mr. Mom and Mr. Dad for 2 1/2 weeks.
Kirby Ann attends Hungarian preschool (Óvoda). On Friday, they had a field trip. I found out about this on Thursday at 5pm thanks to our Hungarian friend Agi. It had been posted for at least week, but since we can’t read the signs we were clueless. I don’t know where we would be without Agi. If this would have happened last year, when we didn’t have Agi, we would have shown up at Ovoda and wondered where everyone was.
The plan was to meet at the city bus station at 7:30am. WOW! That’s early for a bunch of preschoolersm, not to mention that I had to get Kendall and Reed to school as well. It is about a 15-20 minute drive from our house to the bus station. I left home about 7:10 which was cutting it close, but Agi told me that the bus didn’t leave until 8, so I knew I had a little margin.
The problem was that it was raining on Friday morning and that makes the traffic horrible. I made it within 2 miles of the station in about 10 minutes. The final 2 miles took 45 minutes. I was calling Agi telling her that I didn’t think I would make it. She called at about 8am and told me which platform the bus was leaving from (I knew I was in trouble).
Kirby Ann and I parked and ran across the street. When I came near the platform, they were all looking at us and I felt like we were approaching the end of a race as they were all cheering for us to get there on time. I slung Kirby Ann onto the bus and almost forgot to give them her backpack. Agi told me that she has just asked the bus driver to wait for 1 minute for us. This was a public bus, not a charter, so he didn’t have to wait at all.
I guess we made it so that is all that matters. No telling what was going through the minds of all the Hungarian moms that made it in plenty of time. They were coming from a different direction so they didn’t have to fight the traffic. I’m sure the “lueless, American dad” thoughts went through their mind and I was helpless to explain that it was the TRAFFIC. Really, it’s not my fault. I was on time. . . . . Oh well.
Needless to say, I was 15-20 minutes early to pick her up. She had a great time by the way so it was all worth it.